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Domestic Abuse Ministry

We are a Christ-centered ministry dedicated to raising awareness of what domestic abuse is, offering information on where to find help, and advocating for the prevention of domestic abuse in our community.

 

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month

The Domestic Abuse Awareness Ministry of St. Edna will be placing purple ribbons on some of the trees in the parking lot again this year. For survivors of Domestic Violence who have been hurt both physically and emotionally, the purple color is a symbol of peace, courage, survival, honor, and dedication to ending violence.

SHINE THE LIGHT - An Interfaith Prayer Vigil for Those Affected by Intimate Partner Violence

On Sunday, October 21, 2018, there will be an Interfaith Vigil for those affected by intimate partner violence.  This vigil is being coordinated by Arlington Heights interfaith communities.  The event begins at 6:00 PM for a welcome and prayer at St. John United Church of Christ, 308 N. Evergreen Avenue.  This is followed at 6:15 PM by a candlelight procession to North School Park.  The vigil begins at 6:30 PM at North School Park which is located at Arlington Heights Road and Eastman Street in Arlington Heights.  Please join us.

*In the event of rain, the event will be held at St. John United Church of Christ.

What is Domestic Abuse?

Domestic abuse/violence can happen to anyone of any race, age, sexual orientation, religion or gender.

It affects couples who are married, living together or dating. Abuse hurts people of all socioeconomic and educational backgrounds.

Domestic abuse is a repetitive pattern of behaviors used to exert power and control over another within an intimate relationship. These are behaviors that physically harm, arouse fear, coerce, intimidate, and isolate. Abuse may include the use of physical or sexual violence, threats and intimidation, emotional or spiritual abuse, and economic deprivation. Many of these different forms of abuse can be going on at any one time.

Domestic abuse doesn't look the same in every relationship because every relationship is different. But one thing most abusive relationships have in common is that the abusive partner uses many ways to gain power and control over another. Domestic abuse often escalates and controlling behavior may often grow to include physical violence.

Domestic abuse hurts the victim, the abuser, and those who witness the abuse.

Content in this brochure excerpted from the National Domestic Violence Hotline at www.thehotline.org

How You Can Help a Friend or Family Member

  • Acknowledge that they are in a very difficult and scary situation; be supportive and listen.
  • Be non-judgmental.
  • If they end the relationship, continue to be supportive of them.
  • Encourage them to participate in activities outside of the relationship with friends and family.
  • Help them develop a safety plan.
  • Encourage them to talk to people who can provide help and guidance.
  • Remember that you cannot “rescue” them.

What You Should Know About Teen Dating Violence

Teen dating violence is defined as the physical, psychological, sexual or emotional violence within a dating relationship, including stalking. It can occur in person or electronically, from a current or former partner.

Teens often think behaviors like teasing or name-calling are "normal" parts of a relationship, but these behaviors can become abusive and develop into more serious forms of violence.

Communicating with your partner, managing uncomfortable emotions like anger and jealousy, and treating others with respect are a few ways to keep relationships healthy and nonviolent.

The Teen Dating Violence link on the right has additional information and resources on effective prevention strategies and where to go for help.

 

You Are Not Alone; Help Is Available

Local and National Domestic and Dating Violence Resources

National Domestic Violence Hotline
24 hour hotline
800-799-SAFE (or 800-799-7233)
800-787-3224 (TTY)
www.ndvh.org

National Teen Dating Violence Helpline
24 hour helpline
866-331-9474

Illinois Domestic Violence
24 hour hotline
877-863-6338

Rolling Meadows Courthouse
24 hour helpline
800-603-HELP

WINGS
24 hour hotline
847-221-5680

Chicagoland Domestic Violence
24 hour helpline
877-863-6338

Arlington Heights Police Department
Victim Services
847-368-5361

Contact:

Karen Korabik/Rita Wojnowski
847.398.3362